这一篇，给我亲爱的学生。
LOVE 爱
爱，是你们一直在追求一路在寻找的。
或许是被现在的媒体所影响了？各源流的偶像剧把爱情描绘得很梦幻也很美丽。还是你们抱着人有我也要有的心态来看待你们的所谓爱情？或者是：你们其实缺乏家庭温暖，所以寻求从外来的关注而误把这当成爱？
爱，不是别人随口说说就存在的。
爱，不是他跟你多谈两通电话跟你笑一笑就成立了。
爱，不一定包含着男与女之间的关系，她也可以是父子之爱，朋友之爱，邻里之爱，以及师生之爱等。当然，最大的还是神对我们的爱。（不过我今天不谈神）
我不否认，我们的社区存在着很多问题家庭：单亲家庭，酗酒的父亲，烂赌的母亲，没人照顾的兄弟姐妹，毒品以及经济上的问题……可是，这不是驱使我们去逃避的理由，也不是让我们从外界寻求爱的借口。
请不要说：我和朋友处得不好，他们都不爱和我玩了。
也不要说：我妈妈不爱我，她有另一个家了。
更不要说：哎哟我爸爸都不理我们的！他每天就只是做工而已。
那么，请问你在哪里？你在做什么？
朋友不理你，是不是你的态度有问题？还是你们之间有什么误会？不要只顾抱怨别人却忘了省察自己。如果真的没问题，那么一个不愿意珍惜你友谊的朋友，你也不必太在意了。何必为他/她而难过？
父母家庭的问题，有很多时候都是我们没有办法拒绝的。既然已经身在一个这样的家庭，我们惟有接受，坦然面对然后再努力让自己活得更好。身为孩子及家里的一分子，我们能做到的就是不让其他的家人（包括兄弟姐妹）担心。可能当你在说着我爸妈不爱我的时候，他们正为你的新衣而烦心。可能当你说我哥都不理我，他却为了你而与别人干了一架。可能当你说我弟弟很烦，他其实跟你一样要寻找别人的爱与关心。
不要为不值得的人做傻事。
不要一直寻求外来的爱而忽略了身边疼你们关心你们的一群人。
不要因为一时的快感好玩而为自己或家人惹来麻烦。
不要拿年少无知当借口。
不要用一时冲动当你制造麻烦的理由。
你的年少无知可能会毁了你自己；你的一时冲动也能让你后悔一辈子。
不要太在意别人怎么说你，可是请你清楚知道自己正在走对的路做对的事。问心无愧最重要。当你要求别人爱你时，请你也爱惜你身边的人。当你觉得没人爱你时，那么你更应该要爱你自己而不是让不爱你的人轻易打倒你。
我爱你们，所以我希望你们都过得好好的。
我爱你们，所以请你们也爱自己。
Friday, March 23, 2012
Thursday, March 22, 2012
if you havent ready for its' arrival, please dont ask my opinion about it..
if you dont know wat u wanna do, please dont tell me to make the decision for u..
i myself can do nothing regarding this..so do u..
asking me wat i wan and then giving me nothing is meaningless..
有些事情最好是尽量从简，但是也有一些事是一定要做的，不能说马马虎虎随便带过就算了。
很自私也很现实。或许伤人可是仍然坚持（至少这一刻还是），因为这以后我就再没有筹码了。
if you dont know wat u wanna do, please dont tell me to make the decision for u..
i myself can do nothing regarding this..so do u..
asking me wat i wan and then giving me nothing is meaningless..
有些事情最好是尽量从简，但是也有一些事是一定要做的，不能说马马虎虎随便带过就算了。
很自私也很现实。或许伤人可是仍然坚持（至少这一刻还是），因为这以后我就再没有筹码了。
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
又是成绩放榜天
成绩放榜，意味着有人欢喜有人愁。今年的成绩，说实在，身为老师的我们都不敢怀抱太大的期望，大家的心态是：不要摔得太难看就好。
成绩放榜，不外乎起起落落，只是在于你升得高还是我跌得重。考得不理想，学生固然难过，教书匠也不见得会很好过。
本来就不敢太期待什么，当同事们在谈论多少A的时候，我只求自己教的科目及格率一百巴仙就好。所以，看到成绩单上的100，顿时松了一口气，也忘了去留意有几人考甲等了。还好，不过不失的成绩，积分比去年微降，名次仍然保持在县第二，至少没让自己太难看（很担心他和她和她不及格的说）。
接下来要想的是：如何把今年的学生教得更好？如何给他们更多的知识？如何让他们从现在的不及格或低空飞过换来一个甲等？教育工作真的就是这样（大马的教育），那边才丢下成绩放榜的起起落落，这边就得开始为这一届的学生绞脑汁。日复一日，年复一年。
放榜天小插曲：
我们学校那位自以为了不起的前学长在没缴清学杂费没还完课本的情况之下想要“抢”我的校刊。于是乎我很不给脸地不让他碰我的东西。凭什么？前学长了不起吗？目无尊长自以为是还很不爽地给我脸色看。你以为你的脸是有多帅？你以为你的照片会有几张？其他人还真不屑看！读了十几年的书，连基本礼貌和尊师重道都不晓得，这段日子你是白上课了吧！也对，你只上某些人的课而已。不过也没关系，反正你不是我的学生。你很好，与我无关；你很烂，那也是你家的事。我只是想请你：不要随便在我的管辖范围内撒野，这里还是我们的学校，可是与你已经没有任何关系了。走在校园内，你的身影真的很碍眼！
成绩放榜，不外乎起起落落，只是在于你升得高还是我跌得重。考得不理想，学生固然难过，教书匠也不见得会很好过。
本来就不敢太期待什么，当同事们在谈论多少A的时候，我只求自己教的科目及格率一百巴仙就好。所以，看到成绩单上的100，顿时松了一口气，也忘了去留意有几人考甲等了。还好，不过不失的成绩，积分比去年微降，名次仍然保持在县第二，至少没让自己太难看（很担心他和她和她不及格的说）。
接下来要想的是：如何把今年的学生教得更好？如何给他们更多的知识？如何让他们从现在的不及格或低空飞过换来一个甲等？教育工作真的就是这样（大马的教育），那边才丢下成绩放榜的起起落落，这边就得开始为这一届的学生绞脑汁。日复一日，年复一年。
放榜天小插曲：
我们学校那位自以为了不起的前学长在没缴清学杂费没还完课本的情况之下想要“抢”我的校刊。于是乎我很不给脸地不让他碰我的东西。凭什么？前学长了不起吗？目无尊长自以为是还很不爽地给我脸色看。你以为你的脸是有多帅？你以为你的照片会有几张？其他人还真不屑看！读了十几年的书，连基本礼貌和尊师重道都不晓得，这段日子你是白上课了吧！也对，你只上某些人的课而已。不过也没关系，反正你不是我的学生。你很好，与我无关；你很烂，那也是你家的事。我只是想请你：不要随便在我的管辖范围内撒野，这里还是我们的学校，可是与你已经没有任何关系了。走在校园内，你的身影真的很碍眼！
Saturday, March 3, 2012
teacher please dont BARK
i know i am rude, yes i am, for i am using the word BARK..
what to do? this is the best word i can get from my dictionary to describe you, dear teacher..
if u need people to respect u, please make sure u urself also respect other as well..
and if u think u really do love the children, make sure u show them how u love them and not by putting all ur love at ur mouth.. i love u i love u i love u so much and yet i am scolding u early in the morning, so what kind of love is it? i dont understand..
dear teacher, i know that i am rude for commentting bout u over here.. i know i am showing bad attitude by gossiping over here.. for i am so so disagree with what have both of u done to my children.. for what reason were you barking at my children at what they didnt do wrong at all? u said u need the attendance urgently, so my boys and girls had given me the data u need.. the only faulth was that their form teacher didnt give u the data.. and the reason their form teacher was missing was because she went to get some data u had promised to put at the counter of the office so that we could refer.. and yet there was nothing at the counter except for the attendance sheet for us teachers.. so can u please explain where did it gone early this morning?
i was sorry i couldnt be the first one to give u the data.. perhaps some other teachers as well because they were also unhappy when they were being scolded for some missing data somebody promised to give us.. we were trying hard to finish our job, so did our innocent children..
they are my boys and girls and they are good (but i am not sure bout the three u gave me without any result).. they did their part very well.. it was their form teacher, for making them being scolded early in the morning.. and the reason was because YOU YOURSELF didnt keep ur promise.. u were actually the one who made it became so difficult to collect this simple data..
so please
STOP BARKING AT MY STUDENTS FOR WHAT WAS SUPPOSINGLY YOUR OWN FAULTH.. U WERE RUINNING THEIR DAYS! PLEASE BARK AT URSELF IF U REALLY LIKE IT!
WOW! WOW! WOW!
what to do? this is the best word i can get from my dictionary to describe you, dear teacher..
if u need people to respect u, please make sure u urself also respect other as well..
and if u think u really do love the children, make sure u show them how u love them and not by putting all ur love at ur mouth.. i love u i love u i love u so much and yet i am scolding u early in the morning, so what kind of love is it? i dont understand..
dear teacher, i know that i am rude for commentting bout u over here.. i know i am showing bad attitude by gossiping over here.. for i am so so disagree with what have both of u done to my children.. for what reason were you barking at my children at what they didnt do wrong at all? u said u need the attendance urgently, so my boys and girls had given me the data u need.. the only faulth was that their form teacher didnt give u the data.. and the reason their form teacher was missing was because she went to get some data u had promised to put at the counter of the office so that we could refer.. and yet there was nothing at the counter except for the attendance sheet for us teachers.. so can u please explain where did it gone early this morning?
i was sorry i couldnt be the first one to give u the data.. perhaps some other teachers as well because they were also unhappy when they were being scolded for some missing data somebody promised to give us.. we were trying hard to finish our job, so did our innocent children..
they are my boys and girls and they are good (but i am not sure bout the three u gave me without any result).. they did their part very well.. it was their form teacher, for making them being scolded early in the morning.. and the reason was because YOU YOURSELF didnt keep ur promise.. u were actually the one who made it became so difficult to collect this simple data..
so please
STOP BARKING AT MY STUDENTS FOR WHAT WAS SUPPOSINGLY YOUR OWN FAULTH.. U WERE RUINNING THEIR DAYS! PLEASE BARK AT URSELF IF U REALLY LIKE IT!
WOW! WOW! WOW!
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